Grace and Joy

Grace is God's unmerited favor freely bestowed upon all of us. Because he has extended grace to me, I try to extend grace to others. Just as he has extended love and mercy to me, I try to do the same to other. As God fills me with his love for ohers, the more I can extend His Grace.

Joy is more than happiness. It is peace, contentment and a sense of God's blessing on one's life. Unlike happiness, Joy is not dependant on one's circumstances either. Joy is like effortlessly walking three feet up in the air.



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Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Blessed Ash Wednesday

 Yet even now, says the LORD, return to me with all your heart, with fasting, with weeping, and with mourning; rend your hearts and not your clothing. Return to the LORD, your God, for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love, and relents from punishing. Joel 2:12, 13
Today is Ash Wednesday. To learn more about its history and observances click on this link.


The Bible readings that are read during Ash Wednesday services reflect the themes of fasting, repentance and reconciliation with God. See this link for the entire verses written out.

1.  Psalm 51 – this is a perfect prayer for those who need to confess and repent their sins. David wrote this prayer after he committed adultery.

2.  2 Corinthians 5:20 – 6:10 - After repentance comes reconciliation.
a.  Vv. 20 Paul says “We entreat you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God.”
b.  The reason why this reconciliation is possible is because as vv 21 says “For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.” Jesus suffered, died and rose from the grave so that we can be reconciled with God and each other.

3.  Isaiah 58:1 – 12 refers to the type of fast that is pleasing to God.
a.  No simple fasts but " to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke? Is it not to share your food with the hungry and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter— when you see the naked, to clothe him, and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood?”
b.  Suggestion – this lent, not so much to give up simple things like soda or candy but to add things as well such as
                                         i.    Ears that listen – to God and others
                                       ii.    Eyes that seek to find others who suffer
                                     iii.    Hands that are willing to help others more
                                     iv.    Heart that is filled with God’s Love and Spirit which then will overflow with his love for others.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Anger as a root to bigger problems

"You have heard that it was said to those of ancient times, 'You shall not murder'; and 'whoever murders shall be liable to judgment.' But I say to you that if you are angry with a brother or sister, you will be liable to judgment; and if you insult a brother or sister, you will be liable to the council; and if you say, 'You fool,' you will be liable to the hell of fire. So when you are offering your gift at the altar, if you remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother or sister, and then come and offer your gift. Come to terms quickly with your accuser while you are on the way to court with him, or your accuser may hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the guard, and you will be thrown into prison. Truly I tell you, you will never get out until you have paid the last penny. Matthew 5:21-26 (NRSV)

Part of the Sermon on the Mount [from which these verses come] include 6 sections in which Jesus tries to correct some misunderstandings of Old Testment laws. This is the first of those six. According to the Expostitor's Commentary, Jesus in these six sections is showing the true direction of what the law was to point to originally [p. 147]. This would make sense because murder comes from hatred and anger. Murder is the symptom while anger is the root.

I've been thinking about roots the last few years. While most Christians I know would never murder anyone [myself included], what about these roots of anger, hatred, greed, etc. that lie in so many of us? Do we feed these roots or do we give them to God asking for him to forgive and heal us of these roots? To be sure, there are times when anger is justified. But it is what we do with that anger that is important. There are healthy ways to deal with anger: work for a peaceful resolution to the issue, ask God to intervene in the situation,  stand up on behalf of those who can't for themselves, pray for the other person/situation, express in prayer how you feel asking God to heal your anger or find a healthy way to vent about your anger such as in a journal or to a trusted friend. There are unhealthy ways: allowing the anger to fester until it overtakes one's life, leading to hateful actions such as put downs, cut downs, verbal abuse [what the word Raca signifies - it means 'imbecile, fool, blockhead' [p. 149], rage, holding grudges, seeking revenge, wishing a curse on them instead of God's blessing, gossip, back bite, slander. And even when one has enough self-control not to do any of these actions, anger that still controls [especially if it is internalized, which is what powerless people often do when faced with a situation that angers them] can cause depression, self-hate, high blood pressure and other mental if not physical health issues.

As stated earlier I can't think of any Christians I know of who would commit homicide, but I do know of plenty who think nothing of hating another person, using verbal abuse, gossiping, talking behind one's back, hold grudges, and seek revenge. I also see Christians who don't know how to what to do with their anger so it becomes internalized into depressed, obsession, self-hate, addictions or other health issues such as high blood pressure.

For those in this situation, ask God to help you deal with the anger appropriately. Since there are many reasons for anger, a simple devotional can't cover all the issues but God can. Pray everyday or more about your anger and what to do with it. Pray for healing of the cause for the anger. It may take some time for healing to come but it will if you let God help you. Doing so will bring healing to you, your relationships around you and your witness as a Christian. Getting rid of the anger in your heart will allow God's grace and joy to abundantly flow in your heart and flow out to others bringing to them healing, grace and joy.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

"Take heart, it is I; do not be afraid."

When evening came, the boat was out on the sea, and he was alone on the land. When he saw that they were straining at the oars against an adverse wind, he came towards them early in the morning, walking on the sea. He intended to pass them by. But when they saw him walking on the sea, they thought it was a ghost and cried out; for they all saw him and were terrified. But immediately he spoke to them and said, 'Take heart, it is I; do not be afraid.' Then he got into the boat with them and the wind ceased. And they were utterly astounded, for they did not understand about the loaves, but their hearts were hardened. When they had crossed over, they came to land at Gennesaret and moored the boat. When they got out of the boat, people at once recognized him, and rushed about that whole region and began to bring the sick on mats to wherever they heard he was. And wherever he went, into villages or cities or farms, they laid the sick in the marketplaces, and begged him that they might touch even the fringe of his cloak; and all who touched it were healed. Hear what the Spirit is saying to the Church. Mark 6:47- 56 (NRSV)

This scenario reminds me of a former church of which I was once a member. This church had a lot of problems in it and the people seemed rather helpless and fearful. I asked others to join me in praying for the church but only 3 people [one at a time] joined with me. This was discouraging but yet on the other hand, hearing from God each time we prayed really encouraged me. Each week I and the other person prayed, and God would reveal a part of his plan for the church. So when that plan was put into action before my and the other person's eyes, we were prepared and not caught off guard. Meanwhile, the rest of the church [which never joined us in prayer] were always caught off guard and always so fearful. I bolded the one verse above because that reminded me of the peoples' reaction at that church.

God told me and the other person his plans, not because we were super saints, etc but because we took the time to pray and become intimate with God. He rewarded our time with him by sharing what was on his heart. This gave me a lot of stability in the midst of the storm at that church.